Our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses.

Sometimes our strength comes from our weakness. When I heard this topic the first thing that comes to my mind is honest, love and money. These are the things that we cannot live without them, they are our life, and we can’t afford not to have them in our lives, but sometimes they break our hearts and bring us down.

Even if we try we cannot run away from them, they are our strength but they can turn to be our weakness as well. You love and trust someone with all of your heart, but he/ she will be the one who break your heart, what do you do? As a woman of this century I know how it feels to be heart broken, I can tell you that crying won’t solve anything or make you feel better but it will make things more difficult for you. Then there’s one more heart breaker that is called money, where can you go without money, because for everything you must have, even if you go for an interview you must have transport money and you must look good, to tell you the truth without money is the same as you are not living in this planet, maybe underground. In my culture even if you want to ask a permission to marry a girl, before you even talk you must put R1000.00 in the table, then you can start talking.   

We love, we trust and love money as well they come as a greatest strength to us, but they are our weakness. You must be careful for what you want, what you hope for and the possible consequences that lead to it.

How to survive on a minimum wage

You may find this very funny, but there are people who cannot have control of their money, its true what they say the more you get higher income, the more you your problems (financial) arise, why?

The answer(s) is very simple:  You are unable to control your money, want more expensive things that are more than your income, your friends, family are putting more pressure on you (peer pressure), you can’t budget for what you have and lastly you can’t accept yourself for who you are and what you are. Competition is everywhere you have to learn to deal with it or else you will end up being financial depression or on financial crisis and depression is not good for your healthy.  I know things are very expensive in these days, but it’s always good to start doing something else that will add up to your income, but it must be legal, like starting your own business.  You cannot always depend on your work income only, because it may not be enough.

As human beings we have this perception of saying money is not always enough, some people think that surviving on minimum wage is impossible, especially in today’s economy, the key is to have a plan and to know where you’re and where you’re going so that there are no financial surprises in the way. Start budget for what you have and work on it. Remember you only have one life.

Try a Cliché

Life is full of different clichés, and we as humans we came across those clichés, some are good some are bad for us, because we believe in words rather than action. If somebody says I love how easy or difficult to believe that person if he or she meant what she/ he says.

I’ve been fooled, you’ve be fooled by people who pretend to love us but they just want to hurt us more and more, when s it going to stop, today, tomorrow or never. You know what it’s up to us to stop that. Some people cannot differentiate between love and money. Each everyday you hear people talking about their love life and after that they talk about money, on the relationship they say it goes together. If we say that, then what is a difference between you and people who are selling their bodies for money (prostitutes?) because what I know if you are in love with someone, in order for you to get money you must sleep with him, there is no way he will give you his money without sleeping with him and that is the truth, I mean I see this things everyday and unfortunately its not good at, because you end – up having HIV or other diseases, this happens mostly to young women of this world including teenagers.

We need to be careful you have a good future ahead of you, don’t spoil it. Wait for your time don’t rush. The world is in our hands.