Friendship is forever

If we are not careful, some of us won’t have any friends left. What is a friend? Most people would answer that it is someone who knows you; some people define as a state that arises from the attachment of two people that is built on mutual esteem, trust, good will, and in special cases - love. What it happens that your friend blames you for something you actually did and you decide to be silent about it? Honestly there is no friendship there.

Friendship reaches out and provides us with a buffer to the normal worries of day to day life. Our friends are our analysts. They are our babysitters. They are spiritual siblings and a really loyal and true friend will be a reflection of what we aspire to become. We rely on our friends to be truthful when we need to be told the truth and to be tactful when we don't. We need our friends to be supportive but not interfering. They offer comment without judgment, and encouragement without pushiness.

Friendships and relationships will never be smooth. You need to either face the issue or seek advice. When a person decides to quit he/she will not be defined as a winner but as a loser. We are told to forgive but some people fail to do so. Our hearts need to be open and free and not holding grudges.

We all have choices and the ones we decide to make will lead us to our future, so look after your friends, and nurture the special bond that you have between you, because there is nothing as special as a very best friend.